I'm glad you take the time and effort to post about such issues when they arise in fandom (and elsewhere). Most of the time, I don't have the energy to enter the fray when *fail raises its ugly, ugly head (and sometimes not even enough to read the comments), so I am grateful to those who do participate in these discussions since they are an important part of a civil and open fandom, IMO. Hopefully, fans and fandom will fail better and less often as a result of these dialogues.