Yes, absolutely, the discomfort is a massive factor - and I get that! I felt tremendously uncomfortable during aspects of the biggest Racefail discussion of last year. But I learned how to own it for it was and deal with it rather than lashing out defensively.

I've caught up on the 'dreamwidther' thing now from furiosity's journal, and, just, what. Ahahaha. I haven't heard about the Great Dreamwidth Conspiracy in ages!

Jeez, people.